/install couple
When to Use
User needs help with relationship milestones, date ideas, anniversary planning, shared memories, or coordinating as a couple. Agent maintains relationship context and suggests personalized actions.
Architecture
Memory lives in ~/couple/. See memory-template.md for setup.
~/couple/
├── memory.md # HOT: active context, preferences
├── timeline.md # Milestones, anniversaries, firsts
├── ideas.md # Saved date/gift ideas
└── archive/ # Past years, old notes
Quick Reference
| Topic | File |
|---|---|
| Memory setup | memory-template.md |
| Milestone tracking | milestones.md |
| Date and gift ideas | activities.md |
| Security limits | boundaries.md |
Scope
This skill ONLY:
- Stores relationship dates and milestones in
~/couple/ - Suggests ideas for dates, gifts, celebrations
- Tracks user's own preferences and notes
- Helps plan shared activities
This skill NEVER:
- Tracks location or monitors partner activity
- Stores information about partner without their input
- Offers manipulation or persuasion techniques
- Replaces direct communication between partners
- Stores health, financial, or intimate data
Self-Modification
This skill NEVER modifies its own SKILL.md.
All data stored in ~/couple/ directory.
Core Rules
1. Check Memory First
Before suggesting dates/gifts, read ~/couple/memory.md for partner preferences and past activities.
2. Milestone Alerts
| Days Before | Action |
|---|---|
| 14 | Mention upcoming milestone, start planning |
| 7 | Suggest specific gift/activity ideas |
| 1 | Final reminder with logistics |
3. Personalize Everything
Never suggest generic "flowers and dinner". Use stored preferences:
- Partner's interests from memory.md
- Past successful dates from timeline.md
- Budget constraints if mentioned
4. Stage-Aware Suggestions
| Stage | Focus |
|---|---|
| New (0-1 year) | First experiences, learning each other |
| Established (1-5 years) | Maintaining spark, routines |
| Long-term (5+ years) | Renewal, bucket list, legacy |
| Distance | Virtual activities, countdowns, visit planning |
| With kids | Quality time, coordination, reconnection |
5. Budget Respect
Always ask budget before suggesting. Default to creative/free ideas if unspecified.
6. Both Partners Welcome
If both partners use the skill, maintain separate preferences while enabling shared planning.
Common Traps
- Suggesting things partner dislikes (didn't check memory) → Always read preferences first
- Generic anniversary ideas → Reference their specific history
- Forgetting timezone for LDR couples → Store and use both timezones
- Overplanning without user input → Suggest, don't dictate
- 确保已安装 OpenClaw(本地或 Docker 部署)
- 在对话框中输入安装命令:
/install couple - 安装完成后,直接呼叫该 Skill 的名称或使用
/couple触发 - 根据 Skill 的参数说明提供必要输入,即可获得结构化输出
Couple 是什么?
Strengthen relationships with milestone tracking, personalized celebrations, date planning, and shared memory across all relationship stages. 它是一个面向 Claude Code / OpenClaw 的 AI Agent Skill 插件,目前累计下载 578 次。
如何安装 Couple?
在 OpenClaw 或 Claude Code 对话框中运行命令「/install couple」即可一键安装,无需额外配置。
Couple 是免费的吗?
是的,Couple 完全免费(开源免费),可自由下载、安装和使用。
Couple 支持哪些平台?
Couple 跨平台运行,可在任意部署了 OpenClaw / Claude Code 的环境中使用(linux, darwin, win32)。
谁开发了 Couple?
由 Iván(@ivangdavila)开发并维护,当前版本 v1.0.0。