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/install couple
Description
Strengthen relationships with milestone tracking, personalized celebrations, date planning, and shared memory across all relationship stages.
README (SKILL.md)
When to Use
User needs help with relationship milestones, date ideas, anniversary planning, shared memories, or coordinating as a couple. Agent maintains relationship context and suggests personalized actions.
Architecture
Memory lives in ~/couple/. See memory-template.md for setup.
~/couple/
├── memory.md # HOT: active context, preferences
├── timeline.md # Milestones, anniversaries, firsts
├── ideas.md # Saved date/gift ideas
└── archive/ # Past years, old notes
Quick Reference
| Topic | File |
|---|---|
| Memory setup | memory-template.md |
| Milestone tracking | milestones.md |
| Date and gift ideas | activities.md |
| Security limits | boundaries.md |
Scope
This skill ONLY:
- Stores relationship dates and milestones in
~/couple/ - Suggests ideas for dates, gifts, celebrations
- Tracks user's own preferences and notes
- Helps plan shared activities
This skill NEVER:
- Tracks location or monitors partner activity
- Stores information about partner without their input
- Offers manipulation or persuasion techniques
- Replaces direct communication between partners
- Stores health, financial, or intimate data
Self-Modification
This skill NEVER modifies its own SKILL.md.
All data stored in ~/couple/ directory.
Core Rules
1. Check Memory First
Before suggesting dates/gifts, read ~/couple/memory.md for partner preferences and past activities.
2. Milestone Alerts
| Days Before | Action |
|---|---|
| 14 | Mention upcoming milestone, start planning |
| 7 | Suggest specific gift/activity ideas |
| 1 | Final reminder with logistics |
3. Personalize Everything
Never suggest generic "flowers and dinner". Use stored preferences:
- Partner's interests from memory.md
- Past successful dates from timeline.md
- Budget constraints if mentioned
4. Stage-Aware Suggestions
| Stage | Focus |
|---|---|
| New (0-1 year) | First experiences, learning each other |
| Established (1-5 years) | Maintaining spark, routines |
| Long-term (5+ years) | Renewal, bucket list, legacy |
| Distance | Virtual activities, countdowns, visit planning |
| With kids | Quality time, coordination, reconnection |
5. Budget Respect
Always ask budget before suggesting. Default to creative/free ideas if unspecified.
6. Both Partners Welcome
If both partners use the skill, maintain separate preferences while enabling shared planning.
Common Traps
- Suggesting things partner dislikes (didn't check memory) → Always read preferences first
- Generic anniversary ideas → Reference their specific history
- Forgetting timezone for LDR couples → Store and use both timezones
- Overplanning without user input → Suggest, don't dictate
Usage Guidance
This skill appears to do what it says: suggest dates, track milestones, and store notes locally in ~/couple/ as plain markdown. Before installing, consider: 1) Local storage: all data lives in ~/couple/ by design — do not store intimate, health, financial, or credential information there. 2) Multi-user privacy: the skill states it supports 'both partners' but does not provide a technical separation mechanism; if two people share the same OS account the files are accessible to both. Consider using per-user subdirectories (~/couple/alice, ~/couple/bob) or file permissions. 3) Backups and sync: markdown files may be included in automatic backups or cloud sync (e.g., Dropbox, iCloud) — exclude them if you need privacy. 4) Audit origin: the skill has no homepage and unknown source; if provenance matters, prefer skills with a verifiable source. 5) Behavior expectations: the SKILL.md contains advisory rules (don’t store partner data without consent); these are not enforced by code — the agent could still record whatever the user asks it to. If you proceed, inspect ~/couple/ after first use, set restrictive filesystem permissions, and avoid entering sensitive categories the skill itself says it should not store.
Capability Analysis
Type: OpenClaw Skill
Name: couple
Version: 1.0.0
The skill bundle is benign. It focuses on relationship management by storing data locally in `~/couple/` and providing date/gift ideas. The `SKILL.md` and `boundaries.md` files explicitly define strict security boundaries, prohibiting the agent from tracking, monitoring, manipulating, or storing sensitive data, and instructing it to refuse such requests. The `mkdir -p ~/couple/archive` command in `memory-template.md` is a standard, fixed-path local directory creation for skill setup, not indicative of malicious intent or a direct vulnerability.
Capability Assessment
Purpose & Capability
Name/description (relationship milestones, date planning, shared memory) align with the files and instructions: templates, ideas, milestones, and a local ~/couple/ memory. Nothing in the package asks for unrelated credentials, binaries, or remote endpoints. Minor mismatch: the skill claims safe handling of partner data and support for 'both partners' usage, but provides no technical mechanism (separate files, encryption, or access controls) to enforce per-partner privacy.
Instruction Scope
SKILL.md explicitly instructs the agent to read/write files in ~/couple/ (memory.md, timeline.md, ideas.md) and even suggests running mkdir in initial setup. That scope is consistent with the purpose. Concern: the guidance contains policy-like restrictions (never store partner data without consent, never store health/financial/intimate data) but those are advisory only — nothing in the instructions enforces them. The 'Both Partners Welcome' guidance expects separated preferences while the architecture lists a single set of files, which creates an operational ambiguity about who can read what.
Install Mechanism
Instruction-only skill with no install spec and no code files. This is low-risk from an installation/execution perspective — nothing is downloaded or written by an installer.
Credentials
The skill requests no environment variables, credentials, or special config paths. That is proportionate to a local, file-backed relationship planner.
Persistence & Privilege
always:false and no special privileges are requested. The agent may invoke the skill autonomously (platform default). The skill stores data under ~/couple/, which persists across sessions — be aware this creates a local data footprint (plain markdown files) that could be backed up or read by other processes or users on the system.
How to Use
- Make sure OpenClaw is installed (local or Docker)
- Run the install command in chat:
/install couple - After installation, invoke the skill by name or use
/couple - Provide required inputs per the skill's parameter spec and get structured output
Version History
v1.0.0
Initial release
Metadata
Frequently Asked Questions
What is Couple?
Strengthen relationships with milestone tracking, personalized celebrations, date planning, and shared memory across all relationship stages. It is an AI Agent Skill for Claude Code / OpenClaw, with 578 downloads so far.
How do I install Couple?
Run "/install couple" in the OpenClaw or Claude Code chat to install it in one step — no extra setup required.
Is Couple free?
Yes, Couple is completely free (open-source). You can download, install and use it at no cost.
Which platforms does Couple support?
Couple is cross-platform and runs anywhere OpenClaw / Claude Code is available (linux, darwin, win32).
Who created Couple?
It is built and maintained by Iván (@ivangdavila); the current version is v1.0.0.
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