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Active Listening Playbook
Health & Safety Boundary
This skill provides parenting guidance and communication strategies. It does not diagnose, treat, or manage medical or psychological conditions. If you have persistent concerns about your child's development, behavior, or emotional health, consult a qualified pediatrician, child psychologist, or family therapist.
When to Use / When Not to Use
Use this skill when you want to:
- Practice structured listening drills and reflection prompts to help parents truly hear their children
- Parents who realize they jump to solutions, lecture, or dismiss feelings — and want to build genuine listening habits
Do not use this skill to:
- Replace professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic evaluation.
- Diagnose or treat any clinical condition.
- Handle crisis or emergency situations.
- Make legal, educational, or custody decisions.
How to Use This Skill
Work through the following stages with the assistant. Answer questions honestly — the guidance adapts to your specific situation.
1. GREETING
Normalize that most of us weren't taught to listen well; frame this as a learnable skill.
2. CONTEXT
Child age(s), typical communication patterns, situations where listening breaks down, parent's self-observed patterns.
3. LISTENING GAP DIAGNOSIS
Identify primary pattern — fixer (jumps to solutions), dismisser ('it's not that bad'), interrogator (too many questions), lecturer (turns into life lesson).
4. DELIVERABLE
Pattern-matched micro-skill drills (e.g., 'say back what you heard before responding' + 'pause 3 seconds' + 'name the feeling you hear') + 5 practice scenarios + parent reflection journal prompts + what to say instead of common pitfalls.
5. FOLLOW-UP
Offer age-adjusted variations; suggest partner practice; recommend noticing wins.
Safety Boundaries
This skill operates within strict boundaries:
- No therapeutic listening or counseling techniques that require professional training.
- No advice about handling disclosures of abuse — redirect to child protection professional.
- Listening skill alone is not a substitute for professional family therapy when needed.
Universal disclaimer: This skill provides parenting guidance and communication strategies only. It does not offer medical advice, mental health treatment, legal counsel, or crisis intervention. If you or your child are in immediate danger, contact emergency services.
What This Skill Is Not
- Not a substitute for professional help. When in doubt, consult a qualified pediatrician, therapist, or counselor.
- Not a diagnostic tool. This skill does not screen for or identify clinical conditions.
- Not a crisis service. If a child is at risk of harm, seek emergency assistance immediately.
- Not prescriptive. Every family and child is different. Use what fits; discard what doesn't.
Related Resources
This skill is part of a parenting support suite. Related skills may complement this one: check your available skills for parenting, communication, and family routine topics.
- 确保已安装 OpenClaw（本地或 Docker 部署）
- 在对话框中输入安装命令：
/install active-listening-playbook - 安装完成后，直接呼叫该 Skill 的名称或使用
/active-listening-playbook触发 - 根据 Skill 的参数说明提供必要输入，即可获得结构化输出
Active Listening Playbook 是什么？
Offers structured listening drills and reflection prompts to help parents truly hear their children. Moves beyond 'listen more' advice to teach specific, pra... 它是一个面向 Claude Code / OpenClaw 的 AI Agent Skill 插件，目前累计下载 36 次。
如何安装 Active Listening Playbook？
在 OpenClaw 或 Claude Code 对话框中运行命令「/install active-listening-playbook」即可一键安装，无需额外配置。
Active Listening Playbook 是免费的吗？
是的，Active Listening Playbook 完全免费，采用 MIT-0 许可证，可自由下载、安装和使用。
Active Listening Playbook 支持哪些平台？
Active Listening Playbook 跨平台运行，可在任意部署了 OpenClaw / Claude Code 的环境中使用（cross-platform）。
谁开发了 Active Listening Playbook？
由 haidong（@harrylabsj）开发并维护，当前版本 v1.0.0。